Stay With Me by Ayọ̀bámi Adébáyọ̀

Trigger warning: miscarriage and death of a child.

One thing that I have observed in my counselling work is that the grief associated with the death of a child is unfathomable, and that it changes families (for generations) in a way that is also unfathomable.

Stay With Me by Ayọ̀bámi Adébáyọ̀ is a deeply tragic story, which examines the yearning and grief experienced by Yejide and her husband, Akin.

I was not strong enough to love when I could lose again, so I held her loosely, with little hope, sure that somehow she too would manage to slip from my grasp. Continue reading

The Not the Wellcome Prize Blog Tour: Sara Stridsberg and Ian McEwan

I’m thrilled to be part of the ‘Not the Wellcome Prize’ blog tour, hosted by Bookish Beck.

Books considered for the prize have a health theme. My contribution is The Faculty of Dreams by Swedish author, Sara Stridsberg, and Machines Like Me by Ian McEwan. Continue reading

Sample Saturday – Wellcome Book Prize selections

Sample Saturday is when I wade through the eleventy billion samples I have downloaded on my Kindle. I’m slowly chipping away and deciding whether it’s buy or bye.

This week, all three books have been shortlisted in the past for the Wellcome Book Prize. Continue reading

Bookish (and not so bookish) Thoughts

01. We had our annual international night with friends last week. This year’s country was Argentina – empanadas, Quilmes, Provoleta, Malbec, big steaks, chimichurri, sweet potato jelly (!) and Argentina’s answer to chocolate ripple cake (before you go rushing to make this cake, know that is was almost unbearably sweet – I’ll stick with the empanadas and grilled cheese). Continue reading